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OMG I can’t believe I literally forgot I even had a blog. Well hey y’all! How y’all been doing?! lol

Well I guess a little life update is “needed”. I finally relaxed my hair again! Best decision I could have made. So much easy taking care of my hair now. Loved my natural hair and curls down baby but I prefer to have straighter hair to fit my lifestyle. Yeah I could have opted to be a straight natural but with my hair being high porosity and frizzes on a dime, I need I wanted something more permanent.

Also, colored it jet black with the Adore 121 Jet Black color. talk about shine for days! Love it. I always been a jet black girly but just never go around to dying my hair again after going back natural in 2023 from when I relaxed in 2022. The only reason I went back natural was because I had been impatient when taking a quickweave out and was just ripping it out so of course that caused damaged. Yes, i knew better considering I have over 10 plus years of experience with doing and taking down quickweave buttttt I was being hardhead -_- lol So naturally that damaged my hair so I cut it all off and started again.

Baby jet black relaxed hair eats down! Buss down who? She isn’t needed! (says the woman who loves a good ol jet black buss down lol) I just straighten my hair today when I go off of work and you truly cannot tell me nothing.

All jokes aside. I probably would have relaxed sooner than this but I always hesitated; I was worried about what others would think. But then it dawned on me, why would I care?! It’s my hair and I can do whatever I want with it. It is not anti-black or anti-natural hair to want or have a relaxer.Just because I relaxed doesn’t mean I hate myself nor my backness. It’s a blessing to be born black. I wouldn’t want to be any other race even if I had a choice. And it didn’t make me more pro-black when I was relaxed nor and I less pro-black by having a relaxer. I just me no matter what I do to my hair. It really is just hair. God forbid I lose all my hair I am still gonna be who i am in my core. I am not my hair and my hair doesn’t make me anything nor is it my personality trait. It is simply an accessory.

I am not sure what people obsession with telling people that what they choose to do with their bodies is wrong. What is actually wrong is you minding someone else’s business because at the end of the day what they do will never have anything to do with you. focus on your life and yourself. You don’t have time to be harassing someone over something that is quite literally none of your business. Tighten up and doo better boo! lol